Woo can be used against me because I could go up to strangers and possibly offend them with my energy. This could also be negative because I may not be a good distinguisher of the other persons mood. I need to be careful to know when people want to talk and when people do not want to talk. In the next semester, I would like to be confident in talking to every kind of person randomly. I do not want to be shy about talking to people or getting to know people.
Individualization could be used against me if I focus too much on myself or on one person in particular and don't spent enough time with other people and spreading my self out more. I need to be careful to get to know not just one person, but lots of people. This semester I would like to develop several intimate relationships where people feel comfortable talking to me and get to know me better.
Activator could very easily be used against me. I could see how I can appear impatient and how I could quickly become impatient if things don't go the exact way that I want them to at the time I want them to happen. This semester I would like to learn how to be more patient and considerate of other peoples time frames and what they are capable of doing at that specific time.
I do not really see how my belief could be used against me. Maybe it could be bad if I have a belief about something very strongly and don't have an open mind to listen to what someone else has to say. That could be hard to listen to other peoples perspective. I want this semester for everyone to know me as having this strength. I wand my reputation to be the girl with belief. I want to be able to bring God into every conversation and not be even a little bit ashamed of Him.
Relator could be used against me because people could see my bluntness and take it as "wow she really doesn't love me. I need to make it clear to people that I do love them and the reason I am being blunt is because I relate to what they are going through and am telling them things that I know will help them in the long run even if they don't want to hear it right then. This semester I want to have relationships that I can relate to and try to help out situations with. This would be good if I were able to have mentoring opportunities.
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The first step to using your strengths wisely is to know that they can be weaknesses too and I think it's awesome that you acknowledge that!
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